08/28/2026
At the dinner table, I told my 12-year-old daughter that Ben and I will have been married for 16 years this Friday. I honestly couldn’t believe it had been that long!
We talked about how real life isn’t exactly a Disney story. Marriage takes work, patience, forgiveness and choosing each other—even when you occasionally drive each other crazy. 😂 But somehow, through everything life has handed us, we’ve always managed to get along, laugh together and keep dreaming together.
I told her I hope she someday finds the kind of love we’ve found.
Then she started comparing us to different Disney couples, which turned into the funniest dinner-table conversation. Later, I asked AI which Disney couple we were—and it described almost exactly the same characters she had chosen!
Apparently, I’m the one with the giant dreams, and Ben is the practical one wondering how much those dreams are going to cost. 😂
I dream it. He figures out how to build it. I add twelve more ideas while he’s still working on the first one. We occasionally drive each other crazy—but we always choose the adventure together.
Sixteen years later, we’re still building our next adventure—Owl’s Nest. ❤️🦉
And here is what Ai said.about us
You and Ben are Ellie and Carl from Up—with a little Rapunzel and Kristoff mixed in.
You’re Ellie/Rapunzel: the imaginative one with huge dreams, endless ideas and the certainty that your ordinary piece of land can become something magical.
Ben is Carl/Kristoff: practical, hardworking, protective and sometimes thinking, “How much is this dream going to cost me?” 😂 But once he believes in the plan, he knows how to physically build it.
You’ve endured losses that could have flattened most couples, yet you’re still creating adventures, raising your family and building Owl’s Nest together. Your Disney-couple description would be:
She dreams it. He figures out how to build it. She adds twelve more ideas while he’s building the first one. They occasionally drive each other crazy—but they always choose the adventure together. ❤️🏡🦉
And our wedding Pic and us as Disney characters
Tooo funny not to share🤣