Relationships in Paradise

30/04/2018

An island of love

28/04/2018

How do you know you’ve met Mr or Mrs Right? Perhaps it’s not a matter of finding the ‘right person’?

We all marry people for reasons that don’t really pan out over the long haul — and that's ok. Christine Carter provides three ways to embrace the reality of an imperfect partner.

16/03/2018

Danny and I have been watching Married at First Sight. We decided to have a look because we were curious about how the experiment was run and what the experts would say to the people walking the relationship path. For us, who don't watch a lot of reality TV, viewing has been an 'interesting' experience.

While there is a lot to talk about, one of the most striking things we noticed was no matter how helpful the relationship advice, particular areas weren't addressed. Of course, it could be the producers chose not to show areas of personal awareness and growth however, the fact remains, many of the participants could have benefited from a little more understanding of their own motivations and frustrations and how these motivations and frustrations impact their behaviours.

Danny and I work in the area of positive psychology and strengths. We believe each person has within them the tools to be effective and happy in a relationship. However in order to be comfortable with others, you first need to be comfortable with yourself. We would have loved the chance to offer a Strengths Profile and Relationship Map to each contestants and give them a clear, tangible vision of their relationship path. Of course, a map is not a reality - it is an impression of a reality. However with it a couple can see not only their own perspective, but also the view their partner sees. I wonder how knowing each others actions were reflections of particular thought and emotion patterns could have improved the communication process and perhaps brought greater success to the relationship?

18/01/2018

Relationships can be a source of inspiration or a source of frustration or something in between. When did you last check in to your thoughts and feelings about your relationships?

12/01/2018

11/01/2018

GC: God’s Country or Gold Coast

11/01/2018

Relationships can be inspiring - they may also be irritating. No matter what you're currently experiencing in your relationship, deepen the connection by truely listening to each other. If you'd love to understand your partner's needs and wish they heard your's, attend one of our 3 night retreats on the Gold Coast.

You'll have your own private room complete with ensuite and beautiful views over the river and hinterland. The beach, cafes, bars and restaurants are all within short walking distance.

Together, you'll discover your unique talents and learn how to strengthen your understanding of each other. As you discover more about each other's needs and motivations you'll find the words to express how you feel and the patience to hear what's really being said

Communication is the cornerstone of any relationship and our Relationships in Paradise Retreats will help you develop skills which to bring awareness to all your relationship.

Your three night stay includes
- Three nights accomodation (ensuite room within a home)
- Two Continental Breakfasts
- Full Strengths reviews and profile analysis x2
- Couple and Individual coaching sessions x2
- Meditation session x 2

Price: $995.00

Optional extras & Day Outings
- Gold Coast Hinterland
- Byron Bay & Crystal Castle
- Golf

Nicole is a certified Gallup Strengths Coach and trained Holistic Counsellor. As an experienced mediation teacher and Strengths coach, she has helped many people, all of the world, learn to live a mindful, strengths based narrative.

To learn more please visit her webpage www.isthismystory.com or call today and chat about how you can strengthen your relationship.