31/07/2026
There was a time when I truly believed horses were my whole world.
From the age of five, I spent every spare moment at the stables. I rode, competed, groomed, cleaned stalls, and dreamed horses. Looking back, I realize that, despite all the love I had for them, our relationship was often shaped by expectations, performance, and the desire to achieve.
Today, everything feels different.
For the past year and a half, I’ve shared my life with two horses here in Spain, living freely in nature. I approached them with patience rather than pressure, with curiosity rather than expectations, and with love above all else.
Somewhere along the way, something beautiful happened.
We built trust. We learned each other’s language. They now follow me freely, we share quiet moments, endless cuddles, and a deep mutual respect. Every day, they remind me that the most meaningful relationships are never built on control, but on understanding.
Perhaps I needed to grow before I could truly meet them.
And this is exactly why my work as an equine therapist has taken on a completely new meaning. I’ve come to believe that before we can truly help others heal, we first need to walk our own path. The connection between the therapist and the horse must be genuine, grounded, and deeply trusting. Only then can we create a space where others feel safe enough to open up, heal, and reconnect with themselves.
It’s incredible how much these horses give me today, far more than I ever imagined possible as a child. They remind me every day that the deepest connections are built with patience, presence, and mutual respect.
I am endlessly grateful for these two beautiful souls and for everything they continue to teach me. 🤍🐴
Cortijo Genesis (Gaucin, Andalusia)
