Phuket Gay Homestay - Neramit Hill

15/08/2026

Yes it’s Saturday again and we have the Gaytherings even in low season. Help to spread the word and also invite your friends. It’s not possible for me to invite by Grinder or Hornet so a little help would be grateful.
See you at 5 pm
Join us today (saturday) at 5 pm for our Gay Men’s Gathering at Phuket Gay Homestay! Enjoy dinner, swimming, sauna, and fun with friends. We’ll start at 5 pm, dinner’s served at 7, and we’ll wrap up by 10. Entrance fee is 300 THB, with drinks available for 100 THB. Finding us is easy—just type ‘Phuket Gay Homestay’ into Grab, Bolt, or Google Maps. Look for the blue gate at the end of the street; slide it open and walk in. See you there!”

31/07/2026

Every Saturday at Phuket Gay Homestay
Join us today (saturday) at 5 pm for our Gay Men’s Gathering at Phuket Gay Homestay! Enjoy dinner, swimming, sauna, and fun with friends. We’ll start at 5 pm, dinner’s served at 7, and we’ll wrap up by 10. Entrance fee is 300 THB, with drinks available for 100 THB. Finding us is easy—just type ‘Phuket Gay Homestay’ into Grab, Bolt, or Google Maps. Look for the blue gate at the end of the street; slide it open and walk in. See you there!” 🌴

23/07/2026

https://www.phuket101.net/phuket-gay-homestay/

Phuket Gay Homestay is more than a guesthouse; it’s a sanctuary for gay men travelling solo or as couples, offering a genuine sense of community and belonging. Tucked away on the edge of a tranquil rubber plantation, this gay men-only retreat blends peace and accessibility

21/07/2026

I found this article about Grindr interesting. Whether you agree with every conclusion or not, it raises an important question about what happens when one app becomes the main way gay men connect.

For me, this isn’t just theory.

For over 14 years we’ve hosted our Saturday Gaytherings at Phuket Gay Homestay. No loud music, no nightclub, no pressure—just a relaxed evening where men can actually meet, have conversations, share a meal, enjoy the pool and sauna, and make real friends.

Ironically, Grindr has banned me from inviting people to these gatherings. According to their rules, promoting our Saturday Gaythering is considered an event, so my account was suspended. Yet every day I see profiles advertising everything from massages to es**rt services and even drugs.

The result is that one of the few genuine community-building activities in Phuket can no longer be promoted on the platform where most gay visitors are.

So I’d like to ask for your help.

If you’ve enjoyed one of our Saturday Gaytherings, or simply believe that our community needs more real-life social spaces and fewer endless hours of swiping, please tell your friends. Share this post. Invite someone personally. Word of mouth is something no algorithm can suppress.

Communities were built long before apps existed, and they’ll still exist after today’s apps are gone.

Let’s make sure we don’t lose the simple joy of sitting around a table, talking to strangers who become friends.

❤️ See you next Saturday at Phuket Gay Homestay.

(Article in the comments.)

21/07/2026

🌴 “Rainy season” in Phuket? We’ll take it! 😎☀️

People often ask us if it’s worth visiting Phuket during the rainy season.

Well… this photo was taken today. Blue skies, warm sunshine, crystal-clear pool water, and our famous yellow duck enjoying the weather. 🦆💦

Yes, we do get tropical showers from time to time. They usually cool things down for an hour or two before the sun comes back out. That’s Phuket’s “rainy season” for you!

The bonus? Fewer crowds, lower prices, and a much more relaxed island atmosphere.

At Phuket Gay Homestay, you’ll find:
🏡 A friendly gay men-only guesthouse
🏊 Saltwater pool
♨️ Steam sauna
🍹 Honesty bar
🤝 A genuinely social atmosphere where guests actually get to know each other—not just share a hotel.

And don’t forget our famous Saturday Gaythering, bringing together guests and local guys for an evening of good food, conversation, swimming, and new friendships.

The weather is beautiful, and we currently have rooms available.

If you’ve been thinking about a tropical escape, now is a great time.

📍 Phuket Gay Homestay
🌐 www.phuketgayhomestay.com

Come and see what Phuket’s “rainy season” really looks like! 🌞🏝️🦆

20/07/2026

If you still read on paper there are magazines and book at Phuket Gay Homestay
And this is the library

20/07/2026

If you still read on paper there are magazines and book at Phuket Gay Homestay
And this is the reading room

17/07/2026

Join us Saturday at 5 pm for our Gay Men’s Gathering at Phuket Gay Homestay! Enjoy dinner, swimming, sauna, and fun with friends. We’ll start at 5 pm, dinner’s served at 7, and we’ll wrap up by 10. Entrance fee is 300 THB, with drinks available for 100 THB. Finding us is easy—just type ‘Phuket Gay Homestay’ into Grab, Bolt, or Google Maps. Look for the blue gate at the end of the street; slide it open and walk in. See you there!”

11/07/2026

When did “social media” stop being social?

Today Grindr suspended my account again.

The reason? I invited people to our weekly Gaythering—a social evening where gay men meet in real life, have dinner together, make friends, relax by the pool, and sometimes even find love.

According to Grindr, that’s promoting an event.

What frustrates me isn’t just the suspension. It’s the contradiction.

Every day I see profiles openly advertising paid s*x, drugs, poppers, massages, and all kinds of commercial services. Yet inviting people to a real-life social gathering where people actually meet face-to-face crosses the line.

Twenty years ago I could place Facebook ads aimed at men interested in men. Google let me advertise when someone searched for “gay Phuket.” Those tools helped small LGBTQ businesses reach the people they existed for.

Today those options have largely disappeared. They were removed in the name of protecting privacy and preventing discrimination. I understand the intention.

But the unintended consequence is that many legitimate LGBTQ businesses and community spaces can no longer reach the very people they’re meant to serve.

Printed gay magazines are almost gone.
Gay maps have disappeared.
Community venues struggle.
Everything has moved online…

…yet somehow we’re becoming more isolated than ever.

I’m not trying to sell s*x.
I’m not trying to scam anyone.

I’m simply trying to bring gay men together in the real world, away from endless swiping, where conversations happen around a dinner table instead of behind a screen.

That’s what we’ve been doing every Saturday for over a decade.

It’s sad that building community has become harder than selling fantasy.

If you don’t see me promoting today’s Gaythering on Grindr, now you know why.

Maybe it’s time we started asking whether social media is still helping communities—or quietly replacing BBB them.

And yes there is still a Gaythering today and every Saturday at Phuket Gay Homestay. Starting 5 pm, dinner at 7 and finish at 10. Welcome in real life in real world.