10/26/2025
“The Faith of a Child”
The other night my two year old son was having a bad night. He was not listening or following instructions very well and therefore had to endure some consequences. One of those consequences being that he needed to take something he was playing with back to where it belonged. It was a metal piece from my grill and he knew he wasn’t supposed to bring it inside. When he was sent outside to put it back, it was already very dark. Now my son does not like the dark, he struggles to sleep at night by himself sometimes because of his fear of the dark, so we already assumed this was not going to go very well. What we didn’t expect was his response to the situation.
While standing outside in the dark, by himself, we heard him yell, “God! Please make it NOT dark. I don’t want it dark please.” After several attempts and it still being dark, my son then said with anger, “God! I’m going to get you!” This led to a talk with him about how he did the right thing to pray to God, but that God doesn’t always answer us how we want, and we definitely are not going to blame God for our problems. A bit much for a 2 year old to comprehend, but the conversation went well. At the end he did accept that God wasn’t going to bring the sun back out just because we pray about it.
This was a sign of immature faith, the faith of a child. But strangely at the same time, it was a mature example of what a faith that trust in God actually looks like. When we pray, do we actually expect God to provide it? Or do we pray with the expectation that God won’t give it to us? I know that I personally struggle with this.
James 1:5-8 tells us what our expectation from prayer should be. “But if any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask of God, who gives to all generously and without reproach, and it will be given to him. But he must ask in faith without any doubting, for the one who doubts is like the surf of the sea, driven and tossed by the wind. For that man ought not to expect that he will receive anything from the Lord, being a double-minded man, unstable in all his ways.”
When was the last time you prayed for something so passionately that when God didn’t give you the answer you wanted that you became upset? God’s ways are greater than our ways and we should come to accept that reality. However, at the same time if I’m fully trusting in my Lord to provide then I should feel disappointment when I don’t get what I want. Because disappointment shows that I truly expected to receive it!
I’ll end with this thought, if God in His infinite power has the power to provide what you need, then you should be so passionate with your request that you deeply believe it will be given to you. Stop praying prayers with one foot in and one foot out. Pray with the expectation that you will receive and trust that God will give you what you need.
This morning if you have struggled to pray or have been discouraged by unanswered prayers, we would love the chance to talk to you about that.
At the Northside church of Christ, we will have Bible Classes for all ages at 9:30am and Worship at 10:30am. We hope you can join us!
-Dane