Spillian

Spillian A magical Catskills estate. Weddings. Celebrations. Adventures. Imagine. Spillian is a place to imagine past what you think is possible.
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Please join us for weddings, retreats, workshops, camps, revels, food, drink, silliness, ideas, wisdom, challenges, play, thinking, relaxing and just simple savoring...all on a superb historic 19th Century Catskills estate, built by the Fleischmanns Yeast Family. Leigh Melander and Mark Somerfield
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Spillian: A Place to Revel

A Wedding at Spillian is:ㅤA Treasure MapㅤWe’ll map your course with you. We have an extraordinary crew who’ll be your pa...
06/16/2026

A Wedding at Spillian is:
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A Treasure Map
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We’ll map your course with you. We have an extraordinary crew who’ll be your partners in your quest, a host of planning tools for you to mark progress and keep everything organized, and coming soon, a wedding coaching course online to keep you grounded and inspired.
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Spillian: A Place to Revel
An iconic Catskills estate where myth and reality blur.
A place of gatherings, adventures, and infinite possibilities.
Where kindness and magic are the air we breathe.
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Imagine with us.
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Click the link on our bio to learn more!
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images by
Joshua Brown Photography
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featuring our beloved couple Juliette & Alec
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06/12/2026

Marriage is about partnership. Creating a wedding should be too.

Howdy, partner.

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We revel in kindness. We don’t believe in an industry that takes advantage of people in one of the most human, most hope-filled, and most vulnerable moments in their lives.
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As a place dedicated to imagination, Spillian breathes possibility and creativity. We work with couples to create both ritual and celebration that reflects who you are and who you dream to be. Every event we do is unique; the antithesis of checking off boxes.
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Revel with us.
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What are you dreaming into being? We are here to help. Click the link in our bio to reach out to talk about how we can.
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images by
LongBrook Photography
Joshua Brown Photography
Randi Roberts Photography
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Revel in Pride, Revel in love.In a time as daunting as it is now, it is more important than ever to be true to yourself....
06/11/2026

Revel in Pride, Revel in love.

In a time as daunting as it is now, it is more important than ever to be true to yourself. Don't create a shell, as tempting as it is. And don't lower your head or soften your voice either. Be you, be proud, and be everything you've ever dreamed to see.

The world may change, forwards and backwards, but you don't have to bend to it. Just remember that you are loved and welcome here, now and forever. So be loud and be messy and be free! And most importantly, be kind - to yourself and to others.

"We believe in love for all. All races. All genders. All cultural traditions. Love wins."

Spillian: A Place to Revel
An iconic Catskills estate where myth and reality blur.
A place of gatherings, adventures, and infinite possibilities.
Where kindness and magic are the air we breathe.
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Revel with us. Revel in pride.
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images by




featuring our beloved couples Jackie & Kat, Isa & Amanda, and Olin & Jem
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On Meaning and Non-Meaning"I wrote an essay yesterday trying to wrap my arms around the process of taking a big, deeply ...
06/09/2026

On Meaning and Non-Meaning

"I wrote an essay yesterday trying to wrap my arms around the process of taking a big, deeply held, but rather incoherent idea and making it visible.

I finished it feeling like I'd caught something important, published it, and then looked at it the next morning and thought:

What the hell was I talking about?"

Read the full essay by clicking on 'substack' in our linktree.
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A Wedding HaikuㅤWe’ve co-created a lot of weddings. With a lot of really amazing people.With joy and mud, tears and swor...
06/05/2026

A Wedding Haiku
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We’ve co-created a lot of weddings. With a lot of really amazing people.
With joy and mud, tears and sword fights, fox brides and barefoot toasts.
These haikus are little love notes to what we’ve learned.
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Spillian: A Place to Revel
An iconic Catskills estate where myth and reality blur.
A place of gatherings, adventures, and infinite possibilities.
Where kindness and magic are the air we breathe.
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Revel with us.
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images by
Natura Collective - NYC Photo + Video
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featuring our beloved couple Johnny & Stalin
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Lighting the fire of possibility.The Spillian Mission: we seek to create physical and imaginal gathering place where peo...
06/04/2026

Lighting the fire of possibility.

The Spillian Mission: we seek to create physical and imaginal gathering place where people can revel in new ideas, possibilities, and experiences within a vibrant, sustainable business model.

Spillian: A Place to Revel
An iconic Catskills estate where myth and reality blur.
A place of gatherings, adventures, and infinite possibilities.
Where kindness and magic are the air we breathe.
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Imagine with us.
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Click the link on our bio to learn more!
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images by




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Birdsong, Thresholds, and the Infinite: Initiation Ascending with the Lark"Initiatory experiences often carry a strange ...
06/02/2026

Birdsong, Thresholds, and the Infinite: Initiation Ascending with the Lark

"Initiatory experiences often carry a strange emotional doubleness. The world feels suddenly more vivid, more beautiful, more alive, and yet almost unbearably vast.”

The latest essay for the Joseph Campbell foundation (link to IG account) from Spillian founder Leigh Melander (link to my IG account) On music, birthdays, larks, and and the imaginal openings that can feel like initiations

You can find the full essay at jcf.org in their 'Weekly MythBlasts' section.
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image by T. Kiya
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A place where you can be exactly who you're meant to be. "Be here. Be you. Belong."Brené Brown, Atlas of the Heart. Spil...
05/29/2026

A place where you can be exactly who you're meant to be.

"Be here. Be you. Belong."
Brené Brown, Atlas of the Heart.

Spillian: A Place to Revel
An iconic Catskills estate where myth and reality blur.
A place of gatherings, adventures, and infinite possibilities.
Where kindness and magic are the air we breathe.
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Imagine with us.
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Click the link on our bio to learn more!
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images by
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featuring our beloved couple Kian & Ash
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The Whatness Problem: A Essay by Spillian Founder Leigh Melander."I wasn’t trying to create a bunch of randomly adjacent...
05/28/2026

The Whatness Problem: A Essay by Spillian Founder Leigh Melander.

"I wasn’t trying to create a bunch of randomly adjacent products. I was trying to figure out whether something deeper could travel across forms.

Whether the essence of what mattered to us at Spillian — imagination and hospitality and meaning and reveling and curiosity and belonging — could somehow live inside objects and stories and experiences out in the world beyond the physical place itself, and actually give people juice in their lives."

Read the full essay by clicking on 'substack' in our linktree.
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image by
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A Wedding at Spillian is:ㅤDreaming & DoingㅤWe co-create with our couples, on hand to help with big crazy ideas and tiny ...
05/26/2026

A Wedding at Spillian is:
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Dreaming & Doing
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We co-create with our couples, on hand to help with big crazy ideas and tiny details.
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Elaborate extravaganzas, simple gatherings of your tribe, or anything in between, we help keep it on track. We’re with you every step on the way, from booking to heading off into the sunset as married people.
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Spillian: A Place to Revel
An iconic Catskills estate where myth and reality blur.
A place of gatherings, adventures, and infinite possibilities.
Where kindness and magic are the air we breathe.
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Imagine with us.
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Click the link on our bio to learn more!
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images by
Harper Pictures

featuring our beloved couples Lindsey & Brenden
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50 Fleischmann Heights Road
Fleischmanns, NY
12430

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+18008113351

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