HighLake Vacations

05/28/2026

05/28/2026

Would be happy to host you and your loved ones!

05/28/2026

Major upgrade alert! ✨ We’ve been busy working on a brand new basement remodel (complete with pool table for those late-night tournaments! 🎱), and we couldn’t wait to show you. Even better news? Due to a last-minute cancellation, two prime weeks in June are suddenly wide open. We are celebrating by offering a special discount to the groups who grab these dates! Days spent exploring, playing on the lake, evenings shooting pool, and nights winding down by the bonfire. Who are you bringing with you? If interested message me for more information.😊

04/21/2026

The ice is gone. The water is sparkling. And the sanctuary is ready for you.

There is something deeply healing about watching a landscape transform. It reminds us that even after the hardest, coldest seasons, life finds a way to move again.

At HighLake Healing, our spring retreats are designed to be a soft landing for mothers walking the path of loss. Whether you join us May 15–17 or June 5–7, you’ll find a circle of women who truly understand the 'both/and' of grief—the heaving sobs and the quiet prayers for peace.

What to expect at the water’s edge:
Legacy Building: Sharing the photos and the music that define our children’s lives.
Restorative Care: Sound therapy, nature walks, gentle yoga and home-cooked comfort.
HighLake is calling. If your heart needs a season of 'thaw,' click the link in my bio to see our room options and reserve your spot. I can’t wait to meet you here. 🤍

04/19/2026

Whether a child passes from a failing heart or a failing battle with a substance, the result is the same: A mother has lost her child. The love was the same. The effort to save them was the same. The shattering of the heart is the same.

When we treat addiction as the chronic, complex brain disease that it is, the "stigma" evaporates. What remains is the deep understanding that your child was a beautiful soul doing their best to navigate a painful world.

To the mothers who feel they have to "explain" their child’s passing—you don't. You only have to love them. In our 'So Much More' Retreat, we don't look at the cause of death. We look at the life lived, the love shared, and the path toward carrying that love forward.
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04/17/2026

At HighLake Healing, our retreat isn't just about us—it’s about them. We are creating a "Wall of Remembrance" this spring, and I want to invite you to add your child to our strings.
Bring 6 of your favorite photos. We will sit by the fire, share their stories, and let our children get to know one another.
Please join our intimate circle in May. I hope you will bring your child’s light to our living room.

04/15/2026

To the Ones Who Stay 🤍

Grief is a marathon, and nobody can run it alone.

Today, I want to say a deep, heartfelt thank you to my family and friends. You have been the steady hands on my shoulders as I navigate life without Phillip. Your continued support—months and years later—is a gift I never take for granted.

To my fellow grieving mothers: Please don't be afraid to use your voice. Tell your circle what you need. Whether it's a quiet walk, a meal, or just someone to say their name out loud. Asking for help isn't a sign of weakness; it’s a sign of survival.

To the supporters: Thank you for staying. But please remember—grief is unpredictable. We might be moody. We might be angry or extra sensitive. We might not be "fun" to be around right now.

Be patient with us. When we are at our most difficult, we usually need you the most. Don't let the silence or the sharp edges scare you away. Just keep showing up.

[Call to Action]: Tag a friend or family member below who has been a "steady hand" for you. Let’s celebrate the people who don't walk away.

04/13/2026

Why We Need to Stop Trying to "Fix" Our Grief
We live in a world that loves a "fix-it" solution. We are told that if we just find the right book, the right therapy, or the right mindset, we can "solve" the pain of losing our child and get back to our old selves.
The loss of my son, Phillip, isn't a broken engine I can tune up. It isn't a "phase" I am supposed to move out of. It is an enormous, life-altering love that no longer has a physical place to go.
When we stop trying to "fix" the pain, we stop fighting ourselves. We stop feeling like we are "failing" at grief because we still cry, or because we still feel that jagged edge of anger in a beautiful cathedral.
At our "So Much More" Retreat this May, we don't come together to fix one another. We come together to witness one another. We learn how to build the strength to carry the weight—together. 🤍
If you are tired of trying to "fix" your heart, come join a circle where it’s okay to just be where you are. Click the link in my bio for retreat details for May 15-17 or June 5-7..

04/12/2026

The cathedrals were breathtaking, but they are also heavy. 🏛️🕯️
I didn’t expect to find myself standing under those ancient arches, overwhelmed by heaving sobs. But grief doesn't care about travel itineraries or beautiful scenery.
In that sacred silence, I felt the "Both/And" of loss: ✨ The prayer that Phillip is finally at peace, helping others in a way only he can now. 🔥 The searing anger that he was taken from us, leaving a jagged space in our family.
If you are navigating a "Both/And" day—where you feel both the light of hope and the weight of excruciating pain—please know that you aren't "doing it wrong." You are just loving a child who is no longer in your arms.
There is room for all of your honesty here. 🤍
This is Part 1 of my journey home. Stay tuned for Part 2, where I’ll share the light and beauty we found along the way.

04/10/2026

From Vision to Reality: The HighLake Transformation
"Swipe to see how we’ve been busy preparing for a beautiful season! 🏠✨
Combining my background in hospitality with my mission at HighLake Healing Grief has been a labor of love. We’ve spent the last few weeks transforming our basement into a bright, inviting space for our upcoming grief retreats and our summer Airbnb guests.
I believe that beauty and comfort are part of the healing process. From the new linens to the intentional decor, this space is ready to host stories, laughter, and much-needed rest.
Whether you're joining us for a retreat or a summer getaway by the water, we can't wait to welcome you home."
Which part of the 'After' is your favorite? Let me know in the comments! 👇