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Lola and Ber Whether you’re coupled/single, our What If workshops are designed to help you access deeper and more.

✨ 3 Things People Are Surprised to Learn About FreENM Fest ✨1️⃣ It's not all about play.Yes, FreENM Fest is a play-frien...
06/09/2026

✨ 3 Things People Are Surprised to Learn About FreENM Fest ✨

1️⃣ It's not all about play.

Yes, FreENM Fest is a play-friendly event. But many attendees spend the weekend enjoying workshops, music, bonfires, conversations, movement, games, and community without participating in any play at all.

2️⃣ Newcomers are welcome.

Whether you've been practicing ENM/CNM for years or you're simply curious and exploring, you'll find people at all stages of their journey. You don't need to have everything figured out to attend.

3️⃣ The friendships often outlast the festival.

Some people arrive hoping to meet a partner. Many leave with something even more valuable: genuine friendships, a sense of belonging, and a community that continues long after the weekend ends.

🌞 FreENM Fest
📍 Catskills, NY
📅 June 20–21

Only 11 days away.

Learn more:
www.FreENMFest.com

🔗 Link in bio.

What surprised you most when you first discovered the ENM/CNM community?

Cartagena brings our work to life —color, culture, community, and connection.Our next retreat theme:What If You Could Ha...
11/18/2025

Cartagena brings our work to life —
color, culture, community, and connection.

Our next retreat theme:
What If You Could Have It All?
Love, desire, honesty, and expansion… all in one experience.

Nov 24–30 ✨
DM to join.

💫 Before you rush toward connection, pause.Ask yourself these 3 questions first.Because opening your heart again isn’t a...
11/11/2025

💫 Before you rush toward connection, pause.
Ask yourself these 3 questions first.

Because opening your heart again isn’t about who’s next — it’s about who you are now.

Swipe through for gentle reminders that help you move from protection to presence. 💚

✨ Our next What If Retreat takes place in Colombia, Nov 24–30 — where we’ll explore how to live, love, and connect without limits.

Spaces are nearly full — message us today for details.

The City of Eternal Spring reminds us what’s possible when we soften, open, and allow new parts of ourselves to come ali...
10/28/2025

The City of Eternal Spring reminds us what’s possible when we soften, open, and allow new parts of ourselves to come alive. 🌸

What if this week, you let something in you bloom again?

What if you didn’t wait for permission to feel alive? 🔥Medellín calls this week — and so does the part of you that’s bee...
10/28/2025

What if you didn’t wait for permission to feel alive? 🔥

Medellín calls this week — and so does the part of you that’s been waiting to melt into the moment.

Pleasure. Presence. Possibility.

What are you craving more of right now? 💫

✨ We spend so much of life following the rules, waiting for the “right” time, holding back our deepest desires.But the t...
10/03/2025

✨ We spend so much of life following the rules, waiting for the “right” time, holding back our deepest desires.

But the truth? You can give yourself permission — to play, to connect, to live. 💋

This Saturday in the Catskills, we’re inviting you into a space where play is celebrated, connection is honored, and consent is always sexy. 😈🍎

What if you stopped waiting?

🔥 The countdown is on.5 days until detention gets a whole new meaning…📚✨ Back to School Party🗓 Sat, Oct 4 · 2pm — Sun, O...
09/29/2025

🔥 The countdown is on.
5 days until detention gets a whole new meaning…

📚✨ Back to School Party
🗓 Sat, Oct 4 · 2pm — Sun, Oct 5 · 12pm | Catskills
💋 Comment for RSVP link

✏️✨ What If You Could Rewrite the Rules?Class is officially in session… but this is not your average school night. 📚🔥 Jo...
09/25/2025

✏️✨ What If You Could Rewrite the Rules?

Class is officially in session… but this is not your average school night. 📚🔥 Join us in Upstate NY for a day (and night) of music, food, play, and connection.

🗓 Saturday, October 4
⏰ 3 PM – 11 PM (Day Pass) | Overnight options available through Sunday morning
📍 Upstate NY

💋 Back to School Party | Detention after dark

🎟 Day Pass
GA Couple: $189 | GA Individual: $95
What If Couple: $169 | What If Individual: $85

🏠 Overnight (includes Day Pass + stay through Sunday morning)

Main Building / Private Room
GA Couple: $400 | GA Individual: $235
What If Couple: $350 | What If Individual: $200

Poolhouse / Communal Lodging
GA Couple: $300 | GA Individual: $169
What If Couple: $265 | What If Individual: $150

Outdoor Camping (BYO Gear)
GA Couple: $225 | GA Individual: $125
What If Couple: $205 | What If Individual: $110

🍽 Includes one meal + cash bar

✨ Drop a 💋 in the comments if you want the RSVP link as soon as it’s live.

✨ What if Mondays were for rooting in, not rushing ahead?Too often, we treat the start of the week like a race. But what...
08/25/2025

✨ What if Mondays were for rooting in, not rushing ahead?

Too often, we treat the start of the week like a race. But what if, instead, we let it be a reminder to pause—planting ourselves in stillness before moving forward?

Rooting in means grounding your body, reconnecting with your breath, and giving yourself the space to arrive gently. From that place, the rest of the week flows more naturally.

💭 How are you rooting in today?

What if you heard what’s possible—straight from the heart of someone who’s lived it?This is one voice.Soft, brave, and t...
08/08/2025

What if you heard what’s possible—straight from the heart of someone who’s lived it?

This is one voice.
Soft, brave, and true.
A glimpse into what unfolds when we’re held in love, freedom, and full permission to be ourselves.

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